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Post by codystarbuck on Jan 2, 2024 22:37:21 GMT -5
Wouldn't the thriftier option be taping a bunch of comics around you? Solves the problem of having to unload your collection. Heck, maybe just staple some long boxes together... I honestly and truly don't think I care what happens to my body once I'm gone. I'm obsessed about being remembered and having mattered and all that, but having a physical resting place where I continue to "exist" seems to run contrary to this idea. I want my loved ones to carry me with them, not pay a fortune to leave me somewhere in the ground. Seems like a big waste of resources. So cremate my ass and throw a big party to remember me. I don't think that would cost too much, would it? Direct cremation (just cremating the body and putting it in some sort of vessel) is going to average around 2 grand. It can definitely be less, if you really shop around, but most people in that situation just don't do it. I really hate the funeral industry...not quite as much as the insurance industry, but almost. More than that, in some states. It cost $6K to cremate Barb's body and that was with no funeral service (weren't sure we could get people together) and no burial. I have a life insurance policy through my job, which pays a year's salary, which will be enough to cremate me. As a veteran, my ashes can be buried at a national cemetery, like my father (an Air Force veteran). Personally, I don't care what happens, even if it gets turned into Soylent Green.
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Post by impulse on Jan 2, 2024 23:00:29 GMT -5
At risk of being slightly political, this seems to me like one of those things that a government should handle for its citizens and that making loved ones deal with this and fork over the cash is borderline grotesque.
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Post by tartanphantom on Jan 2, 2024 23:28:02 GMT -5
At risk of being slightly political, this seems to me like one of those things that a government should handle for its citizens and that making loved ones deal with this and fork over the cash is borderline grotesque.
I suppose that all depends on your viewpoints on mortality in general, family traditions and heritage, among other things.
I shudder at the thought of having a bureaucrat dictating the "how, when, why and how much" details of a loved one's final send-off. I say "how, when, and why" because if they're going to cover the "how much", you can bet that they'll put stipulations on it. Guaranteed. On top of that, we already have many cemeteries that require a concrete or metal vault by their own rules for all subterranean interments, in addition to the casket itself. This involves additional unnecessary expense unless you live in a major floodplain.
When you get down to it, funerals are a form of coping catharsis for the living, anyway. Why get government involved in anything that isn't their business? The last time I checked, most municipalities will still cover "pauper" burials anyway. I use the term "pauper" not in the pejorative or demeaning sense, but in the context that the term is still frequently used to this day in reference to burial or cremation of indigent persons.
I see your viewpoint on covering the cost or a portion thereof, but is it really worth it?
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Post by Roquefort Raider on Jan 3, 2024 7:03:12 GMT -5
At risk of being slightly political, this seems to me like one of those things that a government should handle for its citizens and that making loved ones deal with this and fork over the cash is borderline grotesque. As you say, we shouldn't compound people's grief with financial burdens. Here in Quebec the government pays 2,500$ to help cover funeral costs, and that's just what a simple cremation will cost. I must say I was quite surprised (and pleasantly so) at how respectful and helpful the last two funeral parlours I dealt with were; they showed none of the used car salesman attitude I had observed thirty years ago.
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Post by impulse on Jan 3, 2024 8:13:13 GMT -5
I can see your argument in not wanting to require the government to handle it. I think they should at least offer a standard basic burial service and/or a financial amount to cover routine costs.
Something like RR describes makes sense. Here is a check for the cost of the basic essential service.
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Post by impulse on Jan 3, 2024 10:26:53 GMT -5
Amendment! Offer something like what RR describes to fund it OR offer the basic service including handling it so people who are too overwhelmed with the logistics and grief don't also have to do that.
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Post by driver1980 on Jan 4, 2024 10:18:26 GMT -5
Someone I know is doing the carnivore diet, and has been for at least 3 weeks. This isn’t a person I know socially, so I can hardly ask him about it in detail, but he has tweeted about it.
He claims he feels more alert, has lost weight, etc. Feels better mentally. I’m happy for him. I am seeing a lot of mention of the carnivore diet recently.
The thought of only eating meat-based products bores me, though. I like meat. I eat it as part of a balanced diet. But I also like fruit and vegetables. Also, one site claimed that you drink water while on the carnivore diet. Water only?! I’d be bored. Water is tasteless. And does a carnivore diet mean no eggs, cheese, milk?
January is what it is, it’s the month when you see a lot of talk about diets, alcohol-free months, the keto diet, etc. I honestly hope it works for people. I’m not a food expert, and I wonder if mankind often complicates things with diets, but I suppose I feel it’s about common sense. Don’t drink a 2-litre bottle of Coca-Cola every day. Don’t eat a steak every day. Have some meat, have some fruit and veg, have some water in addition to other drinks, etc. Exercise, too. I don’t know if it’s that hard or complicated, but I speak with no authority on this.
Anyone seen any diet-related posts, tweets, news, etc?
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Post by Cei-U! on Jan 4, 2024 10:55:50 GMT -5
All I can tell you is I lost 100 pounds in a year by A) eating better* and B) eating less, despite being unable to do any kind of physical exercise.
Cei-U! I summon the willpower!
* Less red meat, sugar, salt; more fruit, vegetables, whole grains
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Post by Rob Allen on Jan 4, 2024 11:17:18 GMT -5
You've reminded me of a question that I've never found a concise answer to. One of the basic principles of physics is that matter cannot be created or destroyed. So, when you lose weight, where does it go?
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Post by Prince Hal on Jan 4, 2024 11:19:12 GMT -5
You've reminded me of a question that I've never found a concise answer to. One of the basic principles of physics is that matter cannot be created or destroyed. So, when you lose weight, where does it go? Earth-Two or the Negative Zone
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Post by EdoBosnar on Jan 4, 2024 11:51:53 GMT -5
You've reminded me of a question that I've never found a concise answer to. One of the basic principles of physics is that matter cannot be created or destroyed. So, when you lose weight, where does it go?
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Post by Slam_Bradley on Jan 4, 2024 12:02:10 GMT -5
You've reminded me of a question that I've never found a concise answer to. One of the basic principles of physics is that matter cannot be created or destroyed. So, when you lose weight, where does it go? That's certainly a fair bit of it. The fat is converted to water and carbon dioxide. So it's excreted via, urine, sweat and also exhaled as we breathe.
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Post by impulse on Jan 4, 2024 12:43:56 GMT -5
My mom tried every fad diet available when I was growing up, and I have looked into and tried various eating plans to different results over the years, and I have worked with a few personal trainers. I would never say I am an expert, but I probably know a bit more than the average person, and I at least know the essentials of nutrition. With that in mind, here is my general understanding and personal experience: Basically, all of the fad diets will work but most are not sustainable long time, and generally speaking, all are effectively work arounds to achieve a calorie deficit. At the end of the day, the laws of physics will prevail. If you eat fewer calories than you consume during the day you will lose weight. If you eat more, you will gain. This is a gross simplification, but that is generally how it works. Now you can get deep into the details, and there is far more to health and nutrition than simply gaining and losing weight. There are nutrients to consider, body composition, how what you eat influences cravings and how certain foods reinforce bad habits, etc, but at the end of the day, if you consume fewer calories than you need, you will lose weight. More broad strokes, but eating more natural foods closer to their raw state generally keeps you fuller and reduces cravings, which will usually reduce overeating. Eating foods higher in protein, fiber and fat will keep you more satisfied than eating carbohydrates, particularly refined and processed carbohydrates. Other than extreme cases like Keto and Atkins, you will notice that most of the diet systems are pretty similar and are mostly variations of the same things, e.g. lean protein, some healthy fats like fatty fish and olive oil, lots of vegetables, limited dairy, minimal processed carbs, etc. I think I have seen articles saying that some studies or some such have concluded that the "healthiest" diet for humans is the Mediterranean diet, but again, you'll see a lot of overlap. Personally, the easiest diet I've done is Whole 30. Basically, eating whole foods and making everything from whole foods. Zero sugar, minimal to zero processed foods. The best thing about it is you don't have to count calories or limit portions. If you eat compliant foods, you can eat until you are satisfied, and by nature of the foods, you feel full sooner and stay full longer, so it sort of automates the need for calorie logging. It's not designed as a weight loss diet. It's an elimination diet to test for food sensitivities, so after the initial period you phase things back in. I find it's a good reset to your system and can eliminate the sugar cycle craving so you can get into a healthy habit. The downside is it's a lot of labor because you have to prepare basically everything. I am currently doing a combo of mostly whole foods and high fiber/protein while in a calorie deficit. Basically I am not being so limited as to not have any sugar or fun, as that gets boring and I lose interest, but I am mostly eating healthy and filling things, so I don't feel constantly hungry like a lot of diets leave you. There's a ton of info out there, and I've barely scratched the surface, but there's bound to be something out there for anyone who is interested. In any case, the best diet is the one you will actually stick to. A lot of people have great results just making common sense edits like Cei-U suggested. A few easy ones I've seen: - Don't drink your calories. That doesn't mean nothing but water, but avoid colas, juice, energy drinks, etc. They tend to be very calorie dense quickly, often lead to cravings, and apparently liquids don't trigger your body's full sensor as well as food, so it's really easy to be a huge calorie sink.
- Minimize sugar, especially refined sugar
- Limit desserts to once a week or one day a week
- Eat as much food that is as close to its state in nature as possible, e.g. least processing. An orange is healthier than drinking the juice only from the same orange, etc.
Or just track your calories. A lot of the apps these days have built in guides to walk you through setting up goals and stuff if you aren't familiar with all that. I used to use MyFitnessPal but they got crazy with the pricing and put key features behind the premium sub. I switched to LoseIt. They also have certain features locked behind a paywall, but their pricing is far more reasonable. If you decide to track, buy a food scale. It is SHOCKING how far off a lot of the listed portion amounts are on the labels. There is a lot of leeway in the standards, so the only true way to know how much you are eating is to measure it. Sorry, this got long! I am happy to take this chat PM or if there is interest to start a fitness thread. All I can tell you is I lost 100 pounds in a year by A) eating better* and B) eating less, despite being unable to do any kind of physical exercise. Cei-U! I summon the willpower! * Less red meat, sugar, salt; more fruit, vegetables, whole grains And that is a GREAT start. I don't remember who said it, but a great quote is "abs are made in the kitchen."
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Post by Slam_Bradley on Jan 4, 2024 13:00:15 GMT -5
And that is a GREAT start. I don't remember who said it, but a great quote is "abs are made in the kitchen." But pork belly is made on my smoker.
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Post by Prince Hal on Jan 4, 2024 13:18:30 GMT -5
And that is a GREAT start. I don't remember who said it, but a great quote is "abs are made in the kitchen." But pork belly is made on my smoker. And mine are released there.
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