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Post by wickedmountain on Dec 25, 2016 17:53:50 GMT -5
This community is great I am so glad and happy about the day i found this place  I Don't remember who but ty to the person who posted this website address in CBR forums Ty |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2016 19:00:10 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces).
I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel.
I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2016 19:17:19 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. My condolences Simon, our thoughts will be with you.  |
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Post by Slam_Bradley on Dec 25, 2016 19:18:33 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. My condolences. And those meltdowns are perfectly normal and perfectly understandable. This is the first holiday season since my Mom passed away. You just have to take it day by day and know that it's perfectly normal to be sad and blindsided. |
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Post by Pharozonk on Dec 25, 2016 20:06:38 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. Sorry to hear that, Simon. We're here for you, pal. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 25, 2016 20:20:46 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. Condolences. My dad passed 17 years ago last month, and there are still moments that get me. Those moments are real and they are normal. Time heals but it's a process, just take it as you need to and don't let anyone tell you what you should or shouldn't feel. Strong thoughts for you. -M |
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Post by Lolatadatodo on Dec 25, 2016 20:33:31 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. I am so sorry, Simon.♡ I know these feels all too well. My mom passed almost 2 years ago, and I was just at my dad's today, finally feeling like I could help go through her stuff. I had to stop during the process and take lots of deep breaths. There will be moments, but you will breathe and keep moving. ♡ My condolences, sweetie.♡ |
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Post by Confessor on Dec 25, 2016 21:17:48 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. I'm so sorry to hear this. Meltdowns, numbness and tears are all perfectly natural in your situation. Being there and being strong for your Mother is a very important job and hopefully you can both lean on each other for support. Thinking of you at this difficult time. |
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Post by Icctrombone on Dec 25, 2016 21:50:23 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. I'm so sorry , my friend. |
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Post by wickedmountain on Dec 25, 2016 23:13:27 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. My condolences and sorry for your loss Simon we are you here for you man. Sending thoughts and prayers to you friend. |
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Post by berkley on Dec 25, 2016 23:21:34 GMT -5
Very sorry to hear about your father, Simon.
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Post by Roquefort Raider on Dec 25, 2016 23:27:25 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. My sincere condolences, Simon. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 26, 2016 1:34:18 GMT -5
Yesterday morning, my father died. He had been terminally ill for a number of months with a recurrence of cancer, so the fact of his dying wasn't a shock though nothing can prepare you for the news that it has actually happened. I've been been alternating between numbness and complete meltdown, particularly when someone expresses sympathy or concern over the phone, or some other random event triggers it (hearing Wish You Were Here on the radio as I was driving down to my parents' place had me absolutely in pieces). I've spent yesterday and today partly with my mother, partly alone in a hotel. I don't even really know why I'm writing this here - just having another late night meltdown out of nowhere, and felt like I had to share with someone. Simon, I'm so sorry to hear this and I had my Dad passed away earlier this year in March and my heart goes to you and your Mother as well in this time of need. I feel really bad to hear this and my humble condolences as well. |
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Post by Mormel on Dec 26, 2016 4:38:02 GMT -5
Simon, I am so sorry for your loss. |
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Post by Icctrombone on Dec 26, 2016 8:26:03 GMT -5
My wife crocheted these two figures   |
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I Don't remember who but ty to the person who posted this website address in CBR forums Ty 
