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Post by Bronze Age Brian on May 4, 2016 11:49:42 GMT -5
Yeah, I have no idea what happened, either. Sad to see a certain poster gone, and of course naturally curious as to what happened, but I know better than to pry, and I trust it was handled appropriately as Shaxper indicated. I only came back recently and don't know all the details on what happened but I do know we've lost more than just one member. Dupont was another great member who has since deleted his account. There may be a few more, idk. And I will say, as someone who had once deleted an account here, that I do understand why they did it. I implore them all to come back, and it's possible they will in time. And I know that while we pride ourselves as being the "friendliest" comic book forum...let's be honest, this is still the internet, and arguments or rude comments and worse can happen. And I believe the mods are doing the best they can to handle every situation fairly but sometimes it's even beyond their control. This was a community born out of passion, due to losing our respective forums over at CBR. And I'll just speak from experience as a mod on another forum...it's not an easy job. It's stressful, and can definitely take away from the enjoyment in posting here. These forums are only a couple of years old, and I'd bet they are learning from any mistakes as well. But we should try to understand and respect their decisions even if they may be difficult to accept. I'll refer to the number one rule on the boards: 1. This is a respectful community. Many members will tell you their main reason for coming here is the decency and politeness, even when folks disagree. Personal attacks, passive aggressiveness, just plain combative posts, and/or a general disregard for others will not be tolerated. If someone has offended you or another member, this does not entitle you to respond in kind. Take a deep breath, walk away from the keyboard for a few moments, and then politely inform them of how their actions are coming off offensively or use the "ignore" feature to disregard their future posts. If their behavior does not change, or if you witness a situation escalating, report the post, and all staff members will be immediately notified via both pm and e-mail. Please play nice; This is not your ordinary discussion community. Please use it.
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Post by Roquefort Raider on May 4, 2016 11:59:05 GMT -5
Thanks for that, Brian.
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Post by Icctrombone on May 4, 2016 12:13:27 GMT -5
You have to remember that everyone has a different tolerance level and some people have trouble forgiving an offense. I've had a few words with some people on this forum but I brushed it off. In this world, if you can't forgive , you will walk around with a bag full of resentments that will weigh you down in time. The people that left are all good people. Maybe they just needed a break.
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Post by Confessor on May 4, 2016 12:13:42 GMT -5
Yeah, I have no idea what happened, either. Sad to see a certain poster gone, and of course naturally curious as to what happened, but I know better than to pry, and I trust it was handled appropriately as Shaxper indicated. ...I believe the mods are doing the best they can to handle every situation fairly but sometimes it's even beyond their control. This was a community born out of passion, due to losing our respective forums over at CBR. And I'll just speak from experience as a mod on another forum...it's not an easy job. It's stressful, and can definitely take away from the enjoyment in posting here. These forums are only a couple of years old, and I'd bet they are learning from any mistakes as well. But we should try to understand and respect their decisions even if they may be difficult to accept. Thanks for the trust, guys. It's appreciated.
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Post by DE Sinclair on May 4, 2016 16:28:52 GMT -5
Yeah, I have no idea what happened, either. Sad to see a certain poster gone, and of course naturally curious as to what happened, but I know better than to pry, and I trust it was handled appropriately as Shaxper indicated. ...I believe the mods are doing the best they can to handle every situation fairly but sometimes it's even beyond their control. This was a community born out of passion, due to losing our respective forums over at CBR. And I'll just speak from experience as a mod on another forum...it's not an easy job. It's stressful, and can definitely take away from the enjoyment in posting here. These forums are only a couple of years old, and I'd bet they are learning from any mistakes as well. But we should try to understand and respect their decisions even if they may be difficult to accept. Thanks for the trust, guys. It's appreciated. We do appreciate the support from all the posters on CCF, and also your understanding when we can't publicly discuss some issues due to privacy concerns.
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Post by hondobrode on May 4, 2016 17:49:06 GMT -5
No one wants to be the bad guy, but the moderators do their very best to be fair and even-handed.
We try to help make this as welcoming a community as possible for as many as possible regardless of their background or demographics.
The CCF is a beautiful oasis I think most of us treasure.
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Post by Icctrombone on May 4, 2016 17:55:43 GMT -5
No one wants to be the bad guy, but the moderators do their very best to be fair and even-handed. We try to help make this as welcoming a community as possible for as many as possible regardless of their background or demographics. The CCF is a beautiful oasis I think most of us treasure. Yes. I consider all you people my friends.
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Post by hondobrode on May 4, 2016 18:27:13 GMT -5
As do I, even when we don't agree at times.
That's part of what makes this site so wonderful.
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Post by Rob Allen on May 4, 2016 19:26:08 GMT -5
Is it time to sing "Kumbaya"?
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Post by Roquefort Raider on May 4, 2016 19:54:26 GMT -5
Is it time to sing "Kumbaya"? ...even when we don't agree at times...
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Post by dupersuper on May 4, 2016 20:20:09 GMT -5
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Post by shaxper on May 4, 2016 20:23:35 GMT -5
Hiphopotomus and Rhymnosaurus remains my all-time favorite
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Post by shaxper on May 4, 2016 20:24:26 GMT -5
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Post by adamwarlock2099 on May 6, 2016 8:20:33 GMT -5
Driving in America is easily becoming the worst part of almost everyday of my life. I'm taking the day off today. And if for not taking my son to school; right off the bat my day would not have started with having interact with a *expletive deleted*. Ugh. If I ever get out of here I hope Canadians or English are more attentive, less distracted, courteous and skilled drivers than most Americans. /rant
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Post by Deleted on May 6, 2016 8:40:12 GMT -5
I hope ... English are more attentive, less distracted, courteous and skilled drivers than most Americans. Best of luck with that one!
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